The Flog Swarm, Explained

Photos by the ever-superb Scott Smith

From Papa Tony:

On Saturday, May 31, FetishMenSanDiego will be hosting our next Flog Swarm at 12 noon. Details here.

Clearly, this is something new, and difficult to understand, because it's not even remotely like typical day-to-day life.

So, I will explain it:

The men of FMSD have found a way to establish deep trust with each other at EVERY event, so that everybody goes home happy. We post pictures, videos, articles and audio of our events, which are clearly well-attended and joyful.

We also host events that are NOT posted online.  These small gatherings are more intimate, ecstatic, playful and Tribal.

The Flog Swarm is a BIG gathering (72 folks so far, with ten days to go), but it's the same theme.  It's a way for somewhat-overwhelmed, modern human beings to experience the endorphins of communal joy and relaxed intimacy, in an absolutely safe and welcoming space. We can leave the problems of the world outside for a while.

Think about that.

How can we claim this?  Because we make this sort of promise, and deliver on our promises, ALL OF THE TIME.  When a team is this tight, this trusting, and this interconnected, we can flow from one moment to another, and guide the crowd from one delightful experience, and into the next. This is how an affectionate team works together, when it's not about dominance games.

I could go on and on, but the point has been made.

If you miss this event, you WILL be hearing about it for years to come. The men and women who will be a part of this will have plenty to say, and all of it will be good.